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How does Bumble work for men? Here's how Bumble chats differ for men, women, and non-binary users

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Bumble works a bit differently for men and women. Beata Zawrzel/NurPhoto via Getty Images
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Bumble is a popular dating app that works similarly to apps like Tinder — you're presented with pictures of other people on the app, and then swipe right on people you're interested in, or swipe left to skip them. 

How Bumble chats work for men

However, for men, there is one major difference: If you're a man that's matched with a woman, you can't send her a message first. Instead, the woman needs to send the first message. In a same-sex match, though, either person can initiate a conversation. 

How Bumble's matching algorithm works

Bumble doesn't publish much about how its algorithm works, but it's evident that it doesn't learn your preferences to customize the profiles it shows you based on previous swipes or matches.

Instead, the app prioritizes profiles who have received a lot of right-swipes, and will try to show people who have swiped right on you to make potential matches easier to discover. 

As a general rule, you shouldn't swipe right on a large number of profiles in a short period of time. It indicates that you're either insincere or a bot, and the app will make it harder for other users to discover you. 

Bumble matches are never one-sided — both people need to swipe right on one another for a match to occur. Only after that can two people start a conversation. 

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If both you and the other person swipe right, you're a match.  Dave Johnson/Insider

How Bumble matches work on the conversation page

Once you've made a match — both you and the other person have swiped right on each other — it appears at the top of your Conversations page (which you can find by tapping the chat icon at the bottom-right of the Bumble screen). 

The top of the page is your match queue, which shows matches and, if you've upgraded to Bumble Premium, your "Beeline." Ordinary matches have a yellow circle, while the Beeline is contained in a green circle. 

The Beeline is a list of profiles who have swiped right on you but you haven't swiped right on yet. This obviously makes it easier to find a match. To view the potential matches on your Beeline, you have to upgrade to Bumble Premium, which you can do on a weekly basis or for longer subscription periods. 

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Men will need to wait for women to begin a chat.  Dave Johnson/Insider

Because matches ordinarily expire after 24 hours, Bumble shows each match's countdown by making the circle fade, and organizing the matches expiring soonest on the left. 

Again, men on Bumble can't initiate a conversation in a heterosexual match; the woman has to send the initial message. Non-binary users and users in same-sex matches can send the first message, too. 

But once both parties send a message, the 24-hour timer goes away and there are no time limits on how the conversation progresses. 

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Dave Johnson is a technology journalist who writes about consumer tech and how the industry is transforming the speculative world of science fiction into modern-day real life. Dave grew up in New Jersey before entering the Air Force to operate satellites, teach space operations, and do space launch planning. He then spent eight years as a content lead on the Windows team at Microsoft. As a photographer, Dave has photographed wolves in their natural environment; he's also a scuba instructor and co-host of several podcasts. Dave is the author of more than two dozen books and has contributed to many sites and publications including CNET, Forbes, PC World, How To Geek, and Insider.