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Here’s exactly what you should do with your hands during a job interview

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Avoid overusing hand gestures, so you don't distract your interviewer.  Chris Hondros/Getty Images

Successful job interviewing is about paying attention to details.

Something as simple as glancing at your watch or holding eye contact for too long can throw off your interviewer and hurt your chances of landing the job. 

Same goes for gesturing wildly or fiddling with your keys in your pocket. Depending on what you do with your hands, you can give the impression of confidence, nervousness, or even dishonesty. 

In their book "Crazy Good Interviewing," John B. Molidor, Ph.D., and Barbara Parus outline what different hand motions might convey. We combined Molidor and Parus's ideas with research from other experts to give you a handy (pardon the pun) breakdown to consult before your next interview.

It's okay to:

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Show your palms.

According to Molidor and Parus, this gesture indicates sincerity.

In fact, the meaning of open palms goes back centuries. In "The Definitive Book of Body Language," Barbara and Allan Pease explain that an open palm has been linked to "truth, honesty, alleigance, and submission" throughout Western history. "Humans use their palms to show that they are unarmed and therefore not a threat," they write.

It's okay to:

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Press the fingertips of your hands together to form a church steeple.

This is a display of confidence, write Molidor and Parus. 

Over at Forbes, Carol Kinsey Goman writes, "You see lecturers, politicians and executives use this hand gesture when they are quite certain about a point they are making." 

It's not okay to:

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Hold your palms downward.

Molidor and Parus say this behavior is a sign of dominance. "Do not shake hands with your palm down," they caution. 

The Peases write that offering your hand palm-down "communicates that you want to take control of the encounter." 

It's not okay to:

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Conceal your hands (like by putting them in your pockets).

When you keep your hands out of sight, according to Molidor and Parus, it looks like you have something to hide. This includes keeping your hands in your lap or behind your back. 

As Anita Barbee, a professor of social work, told Real Simple, "A person may be telling you one thing, but these cues indicate you're not getting the whole story." 

It's not okay to:

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Tap your fingers.

This behavior shows impatience, say Molidor and Parus. 

It's not okay to:

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Fold your arms across the chest.

This is "a very defensive position, indicating disappointment or disagreement," Molidor and Parus write.

Of course, a wise interviewer will know you could just be trying to relieve stress or mask insecurities — but just in case, it's best to maintain a more open posture. 

It's not okay to:

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Overuse hand gestures.

It's okay to use your hands to illustrate a few important points. In fact, research suggests that staying too still can give the impression of coldness. 

But relying too much on hand gestures can be distracting, according to Molidor and Parus.

Remember, it's an interview, not a theatrical performance.

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Shana was a correspondent for Insider, where she covered career development and workplace culture.In 2022, she published "Don't Call It Quits" to help professionals who feel stuck in their careers find greater happiness at work.Shana spearheads the HR Insider series, for which she's interviewed talent chiefs at Microsoft and Goldman Sachs, shared tips from an ex-Googler on knowing when to change jobs, and demystified the hiring process at Salesforce. She regularly publishes news analysis; past topics have included burnout among US workers, gender and racial dynamics within HR, and the hybrid workplace.She has moderated programs at Chief and the Harvard Business School Club of New York and has appeared on Cheddar and Bold TV.Before beginning her career in journalism, Shana studied English and psychology at Brandeis University and received her master's degree in English literature from Columbia University.